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While visiting the breakroom at work the other day, I noticed two bracelets setting on the table with a sign marked “Free”. I thought, oh that’s nice…briefly admired them and walked away. You see, while I thought the bracelets were cute, I didn’t need them. Nor did I have anything that matched them.

After returning to my desk, I wondered about the potential chain of events that would have occurred had I taken one of the bracelets. I figured that since I didn’t have anything to match it, I would have purchased a scarf, a shirt or something to go with it. Had that been the case, would I still consider the bracelet as being free? No, not necessarily.

The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines free as not costing or charging anything. So, while there was not a direct charge for the bracelet, I would have spent money (that I otherwise would not have spent) for some article of clothing (that I don’t need) to match it.

So, what’s the point? It’s just a bracelet and another shirt, big deal!

Well, imagine if it were a pair of free concert tickets for a musician that’s not your favorite, but hey the tickets are free. Once you buy a new outfit, get a babysitter, pay for parking, and probably dinner out (don’t forget the tip). What’s the final cost for those free tickets?

Please don’t misunderstand me. I don’t see anything wrong with giving or excepting generosity. However, I would like to encourage you to give more thought about accepting things just because they are free. Besides, it’s not just your money that you’re wasting, but your time.

You work hard for your coins, so make it a point to save, invest and spend your money on the things that you truly value and enjoy.

“A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life.” ~ Charles Darwin


2 Comments

Sher · October 7, 2019 at 8:34 pm

Thanks for the comment Ann!

Ann · October 7, 2019 at 8:15 am

I have never really looked at it in this way. Thanks for showing another perspective. In my experience, people are drawn to free stuff. It’s good to see that, even when free, it is going to cost you something.

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